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Update on #40Before40

1 Sep

It is now two years since I decided to start my 40 Before 40 challenge. Basically I set myself 40 challenges to do before I become 40-years-old.

Here is the second annual update about how things are progressing.

To date I have completed 11 out of the 40 challenges. It doesn’t sound like a lot but I have at least 10 of the longer challenges started and well under way. I do still have three years left to go but I know that this time will fly by.

Here are the six challenges that I have completed over the past year:

Challenge #3 – Go paragliding

Challenge #17 – Write a diary for a year

Challenge #25 – Cook every recipe from one cookbook

Challenge #29 – Read The 40 Books that Every Woman Should Read

Challenge #31 – Take up a new sport

Challange #39 – Downsize

Here are some of the challenges that are currently in progress:

Challenge #2 – Visit 40 countries in Europe

So far I have visited 31 countries so far but by the end of 2019 that total should be up to 33. I have already chalked off all of the main countries off the list. Now I am left with some of the harder to get to places to get to. I hope that I will be able to visit at least 3 more countries next year but I will have to see when is the best time to visit some of the places.

Challenge #8 – Watch every movie on iMDB Top 250 Films list

I have seen 168 films from the list, so there is still some work to be done. I haven’t watched anything since around June time. I think movie are the sort of thing you enjoy more in the winter time. As the nights are drawing in, it means that it won’t be long until I sitting watching films again.

Challenge #26 – Learn how to fold 40 origami designs

The designs actually take longer to make that I thought they would but I have enjoyed learnign the designs that I have made so far. This is one challenge that I hope to have completed before the end of 2019.

Challenge #27 – Read 40 novels in German and Challenge #35 – Read 40 non-fiction books

For most of this year I have been reading English non-fiction books and these two challenges have been forgotten about. I am planning on focusing on these challenges in the last three months of the year.

Challenge #37 – Have a haircut at least 4 times a year

I prefer going to the dentist that going to the hairdresser. I have been doing well on this challenge until my haridresser ghosted me and moved back to the UK. I am now not convinced that the replacement I have found is right for me but I will stick with her or find someone else to do this so that I keep on track.

I have also decided to make one change to my list. I am going to change my Challenge #40 from starting and maintaining my own travel website to create a piece of artwork. I never intended on changing any of the challenges that I had chosen but after trying to start writing for this website, I realise that writing about travel wasn’t giving me as much enjoyment as I thought it would. The whole point of the list was to make sure that there were things on the list that I would enjoy doing. So, sorry, but that challenge needs to be replaced.

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40 Before 40: Challenge #3

26 Aug

Challenge Accepted. Challenge Completed!

My third challenge from my list is now completed. I have always wanted to go paragliding and for one reason or another I have never got around to it.

I began trying to complete this last year. During our trip to South America we tried and failed to arrange the excursion; first in Mendoza in Argentina with the Andes as a backdrop (but communication issues meant that we didn’t manage it) and then in Iquique in Chile with the landing spot on the beach (but the wind was too strong and we weren’t allowed to go).

Fast forward to yesterday and my third time lucky in Interlaken, Switzerland. Although it would have been a lot cheaper doing this activity on holiday in another country, we did have the added benefit or being able to choose a day to go when the weather was good to avoid being disappointed. The weather couldn’t have been more perfect. The skies were blue without a hint of a cloud and the sun was shining.

First of all we had to choose our pilot. When I found out that one of them was called Haydon, which is the same name as my nephew but spelt slightly differently, I knew that I had to fly with him. He was Australian as well, which meant a lot of banter and jokes during the flight.

Taking off was much easier that I thought it would be. You basically have to run as fast as you can until you take off and you run out of ground. I didn’t even have time to be nervous because it happened so fast. Plus the staff did a great job of making me feel completely at ease but perhaps not when someone mentioned, “We should be ok. I watched the Youtube video last night and I think I can work out how to do it.”

The feeling of being up in the air, hands and arms dangling free, was completely liberating. I genuinely felt completely safe throughout the whole flight. We were only up in the air for about 20 minutes, which went by very fast, but it worth it for the views.

Before landing you can do some rollercoaster tricks and loop-the-loops but I get sick just watching people on the teacup rides at fun fairs so I decided not to. I was more than happy to cruise down and enjoy the view instead.

Landing was almost as easy as taking-off. You have to start running a bit when you hit (not literally) the ground and after a few steps you are back on terra firma.

I am so glad that I made this one of my challenges and I have no idea why I left it for so long to do it. I would highly recommend anyone to try this, unless you have a fear of heights. I could have happily gone straight back up to do another flight as soon as I had landed.

40 Before 40: Challenge #39 Downsizing – Part 2

23 May

Later than planned here is the final instalment of my Challenge #39 – the challenge to downsize and get rid of anything that I don’t want or use any more. You can read the first instalment here.

Here are the other things that I have been tackling in my quest to get rid of things I don’t want or need:

Clothes

This was a big problem for me. I had so many clothes but nothing to wear! How many things have you heard people make that complaint? I had so many clothes that didn’t fit because I hadn’t tried them on when I bought them and still had the labels on them or because I’ve put on weight and can’t get into them anymore. Admitting that you are never going to get into a particular pair of jeans or dress is pretty hard to do. Some clothing that I did clear out and take to a textile recycling place I have been hoarding for at least two years. It was time to get rid of them and make some space.

I also had clothes that fit me and I had worn but I didn’t like the way they looked on me. This is again is mainly due to buying things that I didn’t try on. I made a promise that anything that I didn’t feel comfortable in I would also go rid of. That got rid of a surprising amount of stuff. I made a promise not to buy anything without trying it on!

Sports clothes are always a problem for me as well. I have so many t-shirts that I got when I completed a race that I don’t think I ever need to buy another one. Hence, there is no way that my t-shirt for running the Manchester Marathon will ever find its way into a bin.

Possibly the best thing that I did to help me organise my clothes was buying a new wardrobe. It sounds silly but having enough space helps me to see exactly what I have so I’m not searching around in drawer to find things and makes it easier to get ready. I made me realise that I have about forty T-shirts but I only wear about 5 of them on a regular basis.

Scrapbooking

I have a lot of articles from our local paper from when I was younger and playing sport that my mum saved for me. I wanted to keep them but they weren’t ordered in anyway so I decided to put them into a scrapbook. All you need is some glue and scissors and a book to stick them in. It’s a far better way to preserve the photos (and the memories) than in a paper folder that could get damaged. It did take a while to sort through and there were some duplicates but it was great fun putting it all together. 

Emails

I decided to extended the challenge to sorting through my emails so that I stop getting annoying emails about products that I don’t want or need. Obviously this isn’t really downsizing but it is clearing out unwanted stuff. Previously, if I received an email about a product or a service that I had signed up to then I was just delete it. And so, the annoying emails would stop coming. Instead, I unsubscribed from the emailing list. This has saved me so much time – I don’t have to read and delete emails that I have no interest it. Also, I no longer get a sinking feeling when I check my inbox and I see that it is just full of junk that I don’t want. Instead I have a lot more time to read the emails that I want to spend time reading.

I have been surprised about how many mailing lists that I have had to unsubscribe from. And how difficult some companies make it for you to unsubscribe. Even though I began this exercise about 6 months ago, I still get unwanted emails from time to time. I would be easier just to delete them and forget about it but I am determined to unsubscribe from them.

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When we moved in together, we ended up with two of quite a few things, such as plates, cutlery and glasses. None of these items had any sentimental value so it wasn’t difficult to part with them. It was also an opportunity to sort out the cupboards and organise them. I threw out herbs and spices that were well passed their use-by date and made sure everything in the cupboards was in a sealed, labelled jar to prevent it from spoiling and so that I don’t accidentally use salt instead of sugar. The flat that we have moved to has one of those pull out cupboards; it is harder for packed food to get forgotten about at the back of the cupboard.

Organising the basement

We bought some plastic storage boxes and filled them we things that we need but we don’t need on a daily basis to make more space. We now have boxes dedicated to Christmas decorations and wrapping paper, one for important documents that we need to keep and so on. We also have a bike stand mounted on the wall. This gives us more space and we don’t need to move the bike every time we go down in the basement to get something. It is a little annoying to always have to go down into the basement when we need to wrap something or chose a greetings card but it make a difference that it is well organised.

Making the decision to downsize and get rid of things has been a far longer process than I thought it would be. I didn’t realise how much stuff I had accumulated and how difficult it would be (in some cases) to make a decision and throw something away. One of the hardest parts of this challenge is making sure that I don’t go back to accumulating things again. I must keep my booking buying habit under control, for example.

I feel like I have turned a corner though. Life seems to be less stressful without hanging on to things that I don’t need. Long may it continue.

 

Films I’ve recently seen

12 May

I am still going strong with my eight Challenge for my 40 Before 40 Challenges – to watch all 250 of the Top 250 films on iMDB. Over the last few months I have watch some films that I have really enjoyed and a few that I haven’t.

Here are the films I’ve been watching lately:

8. The Lord of the Rings: Return of the King

Finally I have watched the last LOTR film in the trilogy. I can’t say that I enjoyed it all that much. You might remember that I had high hopes for the trilogy after watching the first film which I enjoyed but I don’t have a lot of love for the last two installments. Just not my sort of film but I can understand why they are so popular.

97. Bicycle Thieves

This was a black and white Italian film about bicycle thieves. The main character finally finds work but needs a bicycle or he won’t be able to do the work. His wife sells the best linen so that he can get back the bike that he pawned. Everything is going great with his new job until someone steals his bike. He and his friend look everywhere trying to see if the bike has been sold for parts or if they can see anyone riding on it in town. In desperation he ends up stealing a bike and getting caught.

98. The Kid

This was the shortest and sweetest film I have ever seen. It’s only 52 minutes long and is a Charlie Chaplin production. The Tramp character finds an abandoned baby and raises him as his own until the mother who abandoned him find him and wants to take him back. There is a happy ending though but I won’t spoil it in case you haven’t seen it yourself.

133. The Gold Rush

This was another Charlie Chaplin film but it wasn’t one of my favourites. It about men trying to find their fortune during the gold rush and the hardships that they go through to try and find it. There are some funny scenes like when The Tramp cooks his shoe to eat it and when his friend is so hungry that he imagines that he is a giant chicken and plots to kill him.

140. Room

This is an interesting film. I have never heard about this film before but it was based on a bestselling book. A woman is kidnapped by a man and is held hostage. She ends up having a son with him but she plots their escape so that they can be free again. I would recommend watching it if you have the chance.

142. The Seventh Seal

This was an odd film. It starts off with a knight playing chess with Death. He says that so long as they are playing the game he can’t be killed. Later in the film, Death tricks the knight into revealing the strategy that he is playing so that he will be able to beat him at chess. It’s set during the time of the plague and the religious angle of the film is interesting. I don’t think I got the ending though.

149. V for Vendetta

This film was based around the story of Guy Fawkes and his attempt to blow up the Houses of Parliament. It is set in the modern times but curfews and strict controls limit the population. A masked man (who I thought sounds a lot like Rowan Atkinson but it turns out it wasn’t him) incites the population to rebel and overthrow the corrupt government on 5th November. Keeping in mind the politics of today, I think it would be quite a good idea to recreate something similar in real life.

151. The General

This was a silent film which, because of this challenge, I have fallen in love with. It’s about a man who works on the railways who ends up being a war hero, despite the fact that he has been told that he can’t enlist and the woman he loves has said she won’t marry him until he wears an army uniform. The film had quite a lot of humour in it and it was amazing to think that the film was made over 90 years ago.

171. Cool Hand Luke

From the title of this film I was expecting to sit down to watch a western and I was pleasantly surprised when it was about a prisoner who repeatedly tries to escape. It reminded me a bit of Shawshank Redemption. The best scene of the whole film was the egg eating scene when Luke attempts to eat 50 boiled eggs in an hour for a bet!

181. A Wednesday

This was a thriller set in Mumbai. A retiring police commissioner retells the story of his most interesting case – a terrorist called in a bomb threat and the race was on find the bomb and stop it before it exploded. There is a twist at the end of the story when the terrorist reveals who he is and why he has turned to violence. I really enjoyed this film.

200. Spotlight

As I was watching this film, I realised that I had seen it before. The film is based on a true story of a Boston newspaper who investigates the alleged abuse of children by Catholic priest in the area. It’s a powerful film and shows how much the abuse was covered up by senior officials in the Catholic Church.

211. Hachi: A Dig’s Tale

Why is it that films about dogs are always sad? This was a sweet film but I don’t really understand why it is in the Top 250 Films. I think it probably is because people are suckers for films about animals. It also featured Richard Gere playing the part of a grandfather which I thought was weird and made me feel far too old.

I have now watched 165 films. Only 85 more to go!

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40 Before 40 – Challenge #26 update

7 Apr

This is possibly one of the most fun challenges that I chose for my 40 Before 40 list of challenges. I am going to learn 40 different origami designs.

I must say that some of the designs are a lot harder to make than they look. I did start making a butterfly and gave up because I got completely lost about what I should fold where. I might come back to it later and try again because I don’t like to be defeated by something that seems so simple. I haven’t been

In a strange way I have found it quite relaxing. It’s very satisfying to take a piece of paper and turn it into something different entirely. It tends not to take very long as well which means the satisfaction is immediate. I have noticed though that it is incredibly difficult to fold a piece of paper exactly in half so that all of the sides are in line. If you don’t believe me try it yourself. Perhaps it’s just me.

Here are the first ten of the origami designs that I have made. In case you don’t see the connection (!), all of the designs are animals.

  • cat
  • dog
  • fish
  • shark
  • pig
  • rabbit (I think it looks more like a kangaroo)
  • frog
  • fox
  • turtle
  • crab

Here are the photos as evidence. Are they good enough that you can which animals are in each photo?

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Challenge #29 – Update

27 Mar

From the list of The 40 Books Every Woman Should Read, I have now read 33 of the books. This year I have had another good start to my reading year and being able to read some books and authors that I haven’t heard of before has helped.

The majority of these books have been so good that I have hardly been able to put them down for a break and I have noticed that I have been forgoing watching TV so that I can get through the books even faster.

With only 7 more books to go until I can cross this challenge off my list, you might think that it will only be a few more weeks before I am declaring that this challenge is complete. However, I seem to have unintentionally left the longer books until the end and there is a book on the list that I have begun but abandoned because I found it too boring. So, this might be a tricky one to complete.

Here are the books from the list that I have recently read:

Notes on a Scandal: What was she thinking? by Zoe Heller

I couldn’t put this book down and I read it in a few hours. It’s the story of a female teacher who has a relationship with a pupil. The story is told from the point of view of a fellow teacher and the confident of the teacher who has the affair. I would say that the reader learns a lot more about the person narrating the story rather than the details of the affair – her motives and interest in the story is slowly revealed as the story progresses.

Bastard out of Carolina by Dorothy Allison

I didn’t realise that this book had been made into a film until after I had read it. The book tells the story of a girl nicknamed Bone and her relationship with her mother and step-father. Her relationship with her step-father is abusive and her mother struggles to admit that there is a problem that needs to be solve. The ending was very emotional and I also found it confusing – the resolution was not what I expected to happen.

Play It As It Lays by Joan Didion

This book was slightly odd. It starts off by the three main characters reminiscing about an event from the past and then the book switches to a third person narrator. The main character is suffering from a mental breakdown but it doesn’t become clear until later in the book what brought on this breakdown. There is also talk of her daughter who seems to have been taken from her because of health issues but these aren’t discussed or explained in detail. I thought the book had a dream-like quality about it – some parts of it didn’t seem real and I’m not clear about how or why some of the events described happened. It was a confusing read.

Love Medicine by Louise Erdrich

This is the story of two Native American families over a number of decades and how their lives are affected by one another. The chapters are each told by different characters during different years. It’s interesting to see how one character views events differently to others. You feel involved in the story because the whole book has a conversational style about it – as if you are just sat down having a coffee with someone and they are telling you a story. There is also a complicated love triangle between the two families which makes the story a bit juicier but also brings sadness to the story as well.

The Blue Flower by Penelope Fitzgerald

This was an historic novel that is based on the life of Friedrich von Hardenberg (I haven’t heard of him before either). In the story Friedrich falls in love with a girl, who is lower than his social class but he intends to marry her anyway. I was glad that I can speak German because there were quite a few German phases or words used in the book. I got annoyed reading another book recently that was set in France and had some French words that weren’t translated. It was possible to work out what they meant from the context but it could have been that I misinterpreted them.

The House of Mirth – Edith Wharton

This is the story of a young, privileged woman called Lily Bart, who lives in New York at the turn of the century. She likes to gamble and gets into a lot of debt and these debts force her to make decisions that make her situation, relationship and life even worse. I liked the main character and I couldn’t help but feel sorry for her; everything she tries to do to make her life better end up backfiring and people are not kind to her and believe malicious rumours. I did take a lot time to enjoy this book. I felt like the story was slightly boring in the beginning. It was only in the second half when things start to get worse and worse that I wanted to read quicker to find out what was going to happen to her.

The Secret History by Donna Tartt

Even at the very start of this book, I knew I was reading something that was going to be epic. The book starts with the narrator, Richard Papin, revealing that because the snow came down the police didn’t find the body of his college classmate for ten days. What a way to start a story! I was hooked straight away. The book is his recollection of the events that led up to that point, from how he ended up choosing that college, how he ended up being accepted into a strange group within the university. It was a long book but I couldn’t put it down. The ending was unexpected as well.

The Awakening by Kate Chopin

This book has such a sad ending. It tells the story of Edna Pontellier who realises that she is in love with a man who is not her husband. She struggles with being a wife and a mother and doesn’t have any interest in raising her own children. It is clear that the man she is in love with has the same feeling about her but they are both trapped because of the norms of society. I realised a few pages from the end what was going to be the outcome but it did make it any less upsetting.

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Another update on Challenge #8

16 Mar

I have been cracking on with this challenge over the past few months. The sofa is starting to show signs of wear and tear because I have been sitting on it for so long. However, I feel like I am starting to make progress with this challenge. I have now watched 151 of the 250 films, which means that I have 99 films left to watch – psychologically this is very important. I am beginning to think that I am going to be able to get through this challenge.

Here are the films that I have seen recently:

15. The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers

I must admit that this film lost me somewhere in the middle. Rather than the main action being about Froggo taking the ring back to Mordor, there seems to have been a switch to a lot of sub-plots that are happening. After being so pleasantly surprised after seeing the first installment of the series, I now feel a bit deflated. I hope that the final installment that I am still to watch is better.

21. City Of God

Any film that starts with an armed gang of men and young boys chasing a chicken down the backstreets of Rio is always going to be a winner. This was the story of a ghetto in Rio in the 1970s and the violent drug gangs who run it. It’s gory and graphic in places but it tells an interesting story and is based on a true story.

55. Cinema Paradiso

This film won the Oscar for the best foreign language film. As the name suggests the story revolves around a cinema. The cinema burns down leaving the projectionist blind, so a young boy takes over the responsibility. The projectionist tells the boy he must leave because he can achieve better things. The boy becomes a famous film maker and returns years later to his home town. I really enjoyed this film.

56. The Lives of Others

A couple are investigated by the secret police in East Germany. The man who is put in charge of their surveillance ends up becoming involved in their lives. The whole film is in German but I did use English subtitles because I am not sure that I would have had understood all of it.

66. Oldboy

If I had’ve known what this was about before I sat down to watch it, I’m not sure I would have. It is probably one of the most gruesome films I have seen in a long time. It’s a South Korean film about a man, who is imprisoned in a room for 15 years, but he has no idea why or who is keeping him captive. When he is released, he sets out to get revenge but ends up falling in love with a woman, who later turns out to be his daughter. It’s all very disturbing.

147. Elephant Man

The story of John Merrick is well documented but I still found this story quite shocking and incredibly sad. I also never knew that Anthony Hopkins was in this film which was a nice surprise.

148. Wild Strawberries

This was a first for me –  a black and white Swedish film. What would we do without subtitles! I found it to be quite a weird film. A doctor is on his way to collect and honorary doctorate and on the journey to the ceremony he has a series of nightmares and day dreams about his past that have always made him feel uncomfortable. It was a good exploration of the meaning of acceptance.

152. Warrior

I’m not so sure why this is so high on the list. It’s about two estranged brothers, who independently decide to enter a mixed martial arts competition because both of them are broke. I thought you could see the plot twists coming a mile off – the elder brother is a physic teacher struggling to pay the mortgage, the younger one is a former Marine who deserted. Having said that, it was more about the action out of the cage than in it. The brothers also have an alcoholic father and come to terms with the circumstances under which their mother died.

170. Mary and Max

I have never heard of this film before but it had an all-star cast. It was an animated film (Wallace-and-Gromit-esque but a bit darker) about an eight-year-old Australian girl who is being bullied so she becomes pen pals with an older Jewish man living in New York. It was a really emotional tale because both of the characters have hardships and their friendship is something that helps them through those times. A must watch.

180. Gone Girl

I always get this story mixed up with The Girl on a Train because I read the books at around the same time and the stories both involve a grown woman going missing. It was a powerful story about manipulation and revenge and follows the plot of the book very closely. I had forgotten how horrifying some of the scenes in the book were though.

187. Platoon

 

188. Hotel Rwanda

This was one of the films I was dreading watching because of the subject matter. I watched this after watching Oldboy (above) so the scenes of genocide weren’t so horrific as I was expecting. I didn’t know a lot about the genocide in Rwanda apart from that there was one and thousands died. It was well acted and it felt like I was watching a documentary or a film than something for entertainment. At the end of the film, it is revealed that the film was based on real events which I found chilling but also awe inspiring.

195. The 400 Blows

This was a French film about a boy struggling to fit in at school, who also has to deal with his neglectful parents. I was disappointed. Not a great deal happened in the film and if I am honest, I was a bit bored half way through, even though some scenes were very funny.

206. Amores Perros

I realised fairly quickly that I have seen this film before. I watched it anyway because it was a long time ago that I saw it. It is three separate stories that intersect into one during a car accident. The subject matter is forbidden love (between a man and his sister-in-law), loss when a model is scarred for life after being involved in the crash) and remorse after a former assassin cheats his way into some money and goes to find his daughter, who he left behind years previously.

219. Prisoners

I do love a kidnap story and I think I might be becoming an expert in them because I had virtually guessed who did what to whom before the film was three quarters finished. When two girls are kidnapped, it leads to one of their fathers, taking the law into his own hands but he ends up getting more than he bargained for. It was tense at times and interesting to see the view of a revengeful father figure rather than someone who sits back and lets the police do their job. But if he was then the film wouldn’t have been anywhere near as good.

230. The Bourne Ultimatum

One word to describe this film: intense. From the beginning it was all action. I have only seen the first film from the Bourne series but I don’t think that I missed out from not seeing the others. I do think that the music had a significant impact on how dramatic the action was. The pace of the film was good in the sense that there weren’t big build ups to storylines which I find boring.

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